As easy as ABC

No-ones life is as easy as abc.
Fact, right?
Everyones life has it's own complications and everyone will choose to deal with it in their own ways. It is not our place to judge other peoples' problems.

Until they solicite help in dealing with it.

Not only does this invite you to judge, but it also opens up the possibility of critisising decisions they have made, that have led to said problems. However this is extremely easy to do, when you're sat there, WITHOUT said problem in your life. Without having to worry about what will happen if you take a certain course of action. Dissecting others' problems can also lead to hypocrisy, help with your own problems, make you feel grateful or further your own problems.

I am sat on my bed, reading a book about a woman of 30, who has my dream career, with absolutely no luck in love and feeling like no-one understands her. Now, regardless of what my life is doing with itself now, that may well be me in 13 years. And my point being, that that is actually quite a peculiar and scary thought. To me, being unlucky in love is worse than having no job. But to someone else, that life would be welcomed, and love wouldn't be a worry or a problem at all.
I value love because i want to feel loved (duh) , share a connection, trust and care for someone for the rest of my life. I'm not talking about the overly slushy, fatastical and lets face it girls, unrealistic love you read about and watch on the tellybox, i'm talking about the real deal. The nitty gritty (and admittedly, sometimes shitty) stuff, that lasts a lifetime, and is there when you feel nothing else is, but you are still happy, because no matter what you've still got them.

The ups and downs of love are difficult and vary from person to person. But you and your partner understand, and should therefore be able to resolve problems coming your way and act as a united front. Because you understand each other.

My point really overall being, that you cannot take everything at face value, because there's going to be things you can't understand, but there should be someone else around, just that one someone, to understand you. And they are the person who does have the right to make a judgement and try and help you based on it.
So is trying to get a mixture of a good life, career, children, love and maybe even Reading Festival one day, gonna be easy? No. Because life is certainly not as easy as abc.